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What a Divorce Agreement Can—and Cannot—Change
A signed divorce agreement provides structure, but it does not erase broken trust. Explore what helps parents build a workable parenting relationship when conflict continues.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
3 min read


Building a Divorce Coaching Practice: Commitment, Continuity, and Resilience
Building a divorce coaching practice requires more than certification and a website. Explore the commitment, continuity, resilience, and professional relationships needed to create a sustainable practice.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
6 min read


High-Conflict Co-Parenting: Helping Clients Break the Blame Cycle
When conflict becomes the lens through which every co-parenting interaction is interpreted, even a small problem can reinforce years of blame. Divorce coaches and ADR professionals can help clients separate facts from assumptions, respond proportionately, and make room for the child’s needs without minimizing legitimate harm.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
9 min read


The Space Between Disagreement and Reaction- Why conflict competence begins before we decide what to say or do next.
Between disagreement and reaction is a space where better choices become possible. Explore how conflict competence helps divorcing clients regulate, question assumptions, communicate boundaries and respond with greater intention.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
6 min read


Before ChatGPT, Were Divorce Coaches the Human Prompt Box?
If AI can draft the email, organize the conflict and suggest what to say next, what is the divorce coach actually there to do? As AI changes the way people navigate difficult communication, it is also forcing us to take a closer look at the role of the divorce coach and the difference between giving clients better answers and developing their capacity to navigate conflict for themselves.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
9 min read


Why Pre-Mediation Coaching May Be the Next Essential Specialization for ADR Divorce Coaches
As mediation becomes an increasingly prominent path through divorce, ADR divorce coaches have an opportunity to deepen their skills and expand their services. Pre-mediation divorce coaching is an advanced specialization that builds on existing conflict-resolution competencies while preparing coaches to meet the needs of clients navigating mediation, often pro se or with consulting attorneys.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
7 min read


Why Smart People Make Bad Decisions During Divorce
Even highly accomplished people can struggle with decision-making during divorce. The reason isn't intelligence. Conflict, perceived threat and emotion can change how we evaluate risk, interpret information and make decisions about our future.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
9 min read


The Conflict Before the Conflict: The Role of Divorce Coaching When Conflict Is Internal
Before divorce becomes a conflict between two people, it often begins as a conflict within one. Explore how conflict-focused divorce coaching can help clients navigate ambivalence, competing interests, fear, uncertainty, and information gaps—without directing the decision—so they can better understand their choices and exercise meaningful self-determination.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
10 min read


Taylor Swift, Conflict, Divorce, and the Stories We Tell Ourselves
This summer, I once again had the opportunity to leave Florida behind for a while and spend several weeks traveling throughout New England. Somewhere along the way, this has become more than just a summer trip. It's become a chance to revisit the places that shaped my childhood and, perhaps even more importantly, to reflect on how those places have shaped me.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
5 min read


What Dorothy Can Teach Us About Divorce Coaching and Early Dispute Resolution
What can The Wizard of Oz teach us about divorce? More than you might think. Before people choose mediation, litigation, or another legal path, they often need something far more important: the opportunity to understand themselves, their conflict patterns, and where they truly want to go. Discover why early guidance may be the missing piece in family dispute resolution.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
3 min read


Career Reinvention in the Age of AI: Why More Professionals Are Rethinking What They Want From Work
Are you rethinking your career? As artificial intelligence reshapes the future of work, many professionals are asking for more than a paycheck. They're seeking greater autonomy, flexibility, creativity, and purpose. Discover why divorce coaching is emerging as a meaningful career path for experienced professionals looking to build a future on their own terms.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
6 min read


What Is an ADR Divorce Coach? A Clear Definition of a Conflict-Informed Profession
Anyone can call themselves a divorce coach. That's exactly the problem. An ADR divorce coach is a conflict-informed dispute resolution professional — defined by scope of practice, competencies, and ethics, not by whatever background a practitioner happens to bring. A clear definition of the profession, what it is, and what it is not.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
6 min read


The Loyalty Conflict Trap: How Well-Meaning Parents Accidentally Ask Children to Choose Sides
Most parents who create loyalty conflicts don't mean to. They're hurting and that pain leaks onto their children in ways they never intended. The loyalty conflict trap doesn't require a parent to say "choose me." It only requires the child to feel it. Learn how subtle pressure, emotional middle placement, and loyalty binds form silently and what it takes to repair the damage.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
7 min read


Stop Tethering "Divorce Coach" to Your Name
Adding "divorce coach" to your name isn't the same as earning it. Related, not transferable—proximity is not proficiency. A founding member of Divorce Coaches Academy® on the credentialing gap our field can no longer afford to ignore.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
6 min read


The Divorce Budget Conversation Nobody Is Having
Most people don't realize they've handed over the keys until they're already halfway through a process they can no longer sustain. The divorce budget conversation — the one that should happen before anything else — is the conversation almost nobody is having. And the silence is costing people far more than money.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
6 min read


Child Inclusion or Child Awareness? A Divorce Coach’s Role in Keeping Children Out of the Middle
How do we better understand a child’s experience during divorce without unintentionally making them responsible for it? This article explores a child-informed, child-centered approach and the role divorce coaches can play in helping adults build awareness, hold conflict differently, and make decisions that protect childhood without placing children in the middle.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
5 min read


Why Boundaries Make You a Better Divorce Coach (Not a Less Helpful One)
Strong boundaries do not make divorce coaches less helpful, they make them more effective. This article explores how role clarity, ethical practice, and professional boundaries strengthen client outcomes, support capacity building, and reinforce the integrity of divorce coaching as an ADR informed profession.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
4 min read


The Unauthorized Practice of Law in Divorce Coaching: Where the Line Actually Is
Explore where the line actually is between divorce coaching and the unauthorized practice of law. Learn how conflict-informed divorce coaches support clients through the legal process of divorce while maintaining ethical boundaries around legal advice and representation.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
4 min read


Beyond the Conference Table: Why Dispute Resolution Must Meet People Where They Are
Divorce coaching is redefining dispute resolution by helping clients manage conflict, improve decision-making, and participate more effectively in mediation and family law processes.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
3 min read


The True Cost of Conflict in Divorce (And How Divorce Coaching Reduces It)
Divorce doesn’t just cost money—it drains time, energy, and relationships. In high-conflict cases, the real issue isn’t the legal process, but the individual’s ability to engage in it. Learn how divorce coaching reduces legal fees, shortens timelines, and improves outcomes.
Tracy Callahan, MA, ADRDC
4 min read
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