This summer, I once again had the opportunity to leave Florida behind for a while and spend several weeks traveling throughout New England. Somewhere along the way, this has become more than just a summer trip. It's become a chance to revisit the places that shaped my childhood and, perhaps even more importantly, to reflect on how those places have shaped me.

Anyone can call themselves a divorce coach. That's exactly the problem. An ADR divorce coach is a conflict-informed dispute resolution professional — defined by scope of practice, competencies, and ethics, not by whatever background a practitioner happens to bring. A clear definition of the profession, what it is, and what it is not.

There's a moment at the end of every divorce that nobody talks about. The final agreement is signed. The attorney closes the file. The mediator moves on to the next case. The financial professional wraps the analysis. Even the therapist, if there was one, often concludes treatment once the acute crisis passes. Everyone leaves. And the client walks out the door into the rest of their life, a life that now includes co-parenting exchanges, holiday negotiations, a former spouse w

Adding "divorce coach" to your name isn't the same as earning it. Related, not transferable—proximity is not proficiency. A founding member of Divorce Coaches Academy® on the credentialing gap our field can no longer afford to ignore.

Divorce coaching is redefining dispute resolution by helping clients manage conflict, improve decision-making, and participate more effectively in mediation and family law processes.

Divorce doesn’t just cost money—it drains time, energy, and relationships. In high-conflict cases, the real issue isn’t the legal process, but the individual’s ability to engage in it. Learn how divorce coaching reduces legal fees, shortens timelines, and improves outcomes.

In divorce, certainty often feels like clarity—but it’s what keeps people stuck. When individuals become certain about what’s right, fair, or true, they stop exploring and start defending. This blog examines certainty vs. curiosity in conflict, revealing how unexamined assumptions drive escalation and how curiosity acts as a powerful intervention to improve communication, expand perspective, and support better decision-making.

What is conflict-informed divorce coaching? Discover how ADR divorce coaches support decision-making, communication, and conflict dynamics—and how Divorce Coaches Academy (DCA®) is setting the standard through certification.

Most divorce conflict isn't high conflict — it's escalating conflict, driven by reactive patterns that can be interrupted. Understanding the difference changes everything about how divorce coaches do their work.

Escalation loops are one of the most predictable, and most damaging, patterns in high-conflict divorce. Understanding why they happen is the first step to helping clients break free from them.